The Catholic Parish of

THE HOLY FAMILY

S A N D E R S T E A D

Part of the Archdiocese of Southwark

By Webmaster March 1, 2026
An Intention for holy Mass is a specific prayer, often for a particular person or purpose, that a priest offers during the celebration of a holy Mass. It is the best way that we have to unite our lives, our hopes, our fears, our joys and our sorrows with the Lord Jesus. It is the best way possible, because every time holy Mass takes place, the Lord’s Death and Resurrection also takes place. A holy Mass Intention is a prayer asking that the Lord’s victory over sin and death be applied to the Intention. The Intention can be for those who are still living in this world or for those who have left this world. Anyone, of course, may request a holy Mass - In Thanksgiving, for a Birthday, for someone who has died, on the occasion of a special Anniversary, for someone who is unwell or for any other intention that we believe the good Lord wishes to hear and possibly to give us. Every holy Mass is the making present of the Lord offering his saving love to everyone, so every holy Mass is for everyone! However, sometimes we have specific Intentions that we may wish to mention to the Lord. A ‘Stipend’ or Offering for the holy Mass is not a fee! It is not ‘the cost of a holy Mass’! The holy Mass is so sacred, so full of the Lord’s presence and saving power that it is priceless! In fact, the Stipend is only a gesture of gratitude and care for the priest who celebrates the holy Mass for you. It is a way for supporting our priests who, although they do not receive salaries, still need personal funds to meet their own ‘costs of living.’ The Stipend suggested by the Archdiocese of Southwark Finance Committee is a minimum of £10 for each holy Mass. Of course, anyone who can’t afford a Stipend should still request a holy Mass Intention and I’m sure every priest would always be more than happy to celebrate holy Mass for someone in that situation.  Here in our parish, please use the holy Mass Intention envelopes which you will find in the porch of the church. Please write the details of the Intention, a preferred date if required, enclose the Stipend, and let me have it directly or post it through the presbytery letterbox.
By Webmaster February 23, 2026
The overwhelming consensus of opinion among our parishioners is that having a choice of three Sunday holy Masses in our small parish is not necessary and that in fact having three Sunday holy Masses is only there for convenience sake! Everyone is agreed that two Sunday holy Masses are more than enough for our needs and not just in the Summer! Everybody also agreed that if we are told to lose a Sunday holy Mass, then it must be the 9.00am Sunday holy Mass that we lose, since it is the least well-attended of our present three Masses. It was agreed by almost everyone that given the loss of the 9.00am holy Mass, then the time of the present 11.00am holy Mass will need to be a little earlier in the day. Almost everyone was in agreement that the best time for a Sunday morning holy Mass would be 10.30am. I have sent your recommendations of two Sunday holy Masses in Holy Family parish, at least during the Summer each year, to the Diocese, i.e: Sunday Vigil holy Mass at 5.00pm on Saturdays Sunday holy Mass at 10.30am on Sundays  The frequency and times of holy Mass in all parishes in the Archdiocese is decided by Archbishop John and his Advisors. So, we await the decision.
By Webmaster February 23, 2026
Please remember in your prayers many of the priests working in this Archdiocese. We are meeting with Archbishop John, this week, at a Conference Centre near Nottingham, to pray and to share our visions of the future missionary nature of the Archdiocese of Southwark
By Webmaster February 16, 2026
All parishes, where more than 2 Sunday holy Masses are celebrated each weekend, in the Archdiocese of Southwark, by decree of Archbishop John, are required to reduce the number of Sunday holy Masses by one holy Mass, beginning on the third weekend in July until the first weekend in September. I would very much like to hear your view on this and also how you think we can achieve this in our Holy Family parish here in Sanderstead. Which of our three Sunday holy Masses would be best to remove? Do we need to change the times of any of our Sunday holy Masses? How best can we work with neighbouring parishes, which are also required to drop one holy Mass, to ensure Sunday holy Masses are available in our area?  Please let me know your views and suggestions on all this. The Archbishop wants our response by next Wednesday, Ash Wednesday! Please talk to me directly or by telephone, text or email, as soon as you can. I would like very much to hear your views and suggestions before offering our parish decision to the Deanery and to Archbishop John.
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Welcome to Holy Family Parish


I wish all our visitors to this website, great peace and joy.
I hope you enjoy exploring our site and discovering the varied life of our vibrant parish.
If you would like to join us for the celebration of holy Mass, you will be welcomed with open arms.
So too, if you would like to join in any of our events and meetings, it will be a pleasure to see you.
If there is anything I can do to help or support you, please let me know.
With assurance of my prayers and warmest best wishes,


Fr Malachy

Holy Family Catholic Church


I wish all our visitors to this website, great peace and joy.
I hope you enjoy exploring our site and discovering the varied life of our vibrant parish.
If you would like to join us for the celebration of holy Mass, you will be welcomed with open arms.
So too, if you would like to join in any of our events and meetings, it will be a pleasure to see you.
If there is anything I can do to help or support you, please let me know.
With assurance of my prayers and warmest best wishes,

Fr Malachy


  • Weekend Mass

    Saturday: 5:00pm (Vigil Holy Mass)

    Sunday: 9am and  11am 

  • Weekday Mass

    Monday: 9:30am

    Tuesday:  9:30am

    Wednesday: 9.30 am

    Thursday: 9.30am

    Friday: 9.30am

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By Webmaster March 16, 2026
To everyone who bakes or provides cakes for our Olde Forge Cafe. Please let me know if you could join our rota of very kind people who occasionally bake or provide cakes for the Cafe. Thank you to Margaret Fuller who provides the cakes this week.  Also, thank you to Bridget Saunders who will let us have some delicious Irish Soda Bread on Tuesday, to celebrate the Feast of St.Patrick.
By Webmaster March 2, 2026
Thank you to Patricia for all her very good work as a Catechist in our parish. Thank you to Lorenza for leading Stations of the Cross, last Friday.  Thank you to Angela for helping parents with the Faith development of their children
By Webmaster February 23, 2026
Everyone who came to our meeting last Sunday afternoon to discuss the frequency and times of Sunday holy Masses in our parish. Archbishop John asks all parishes in the Archdiocese to reduce their Sunday holy Mass schedule, during the Summer, by one holy Mass and to revise the times of Sunday holy Masses. Thank you also to those who sent me emails and texts. Thank you especially, to those who asked what would help me if there was to be a change in the times and the frequency of our Sunday holy Masses!
By Webmaster February 22, 2026
It is wise to write a Will so that the resources you have when the time comes for you to leave this world, goes to the people and organisations you wish. May I suggest that you might consider leaving a Bequest in your will to our parish or to our diocese or to our priest as well as to other causes. A gift in your will can enable us to continue to help people to know the Lord Jesus and his saving love. What a wonderful legacy you would be leaving behind.
By Webmaster February 16, 2026
Thank you to Monica for Church cleaning. Thank you to everyone who has already signed up to occasionally deliver two hessian bags of fruit, from our Parish Food Bank to the Good Shepherd Catholic school in New Addington. So far, 21 people have agreed to do this. If you haven’t yet had a chance to add your name and contact details to our list, please do so this week. There is a Sign-up Form in the porch of the church.  The Rota will begin next week. It will be published, week by week, in the Parish Newsletter. The first date for delivery to the school will be Thursday 24th February
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By Webmaster September 1, 2022
PARISH CELEBRATION - THANK YOU, WITH ALL MY HEART What an amazing, quite wonderful Celebration we all enjoyed, last Sunday. It was an occasion full of joy and happiness, as we thanked the good Lord for all his loving kindness. It reminded me of the description, in the Acts of the Apostles, of how the first Christians lived - sharing and caring, as they rejoiced in their awareness of the risen Lord alive in their midst, by the power of the Holy Spirit. There isn’t enough space on this Newsletter to thank so many people by name, who in so many ways, made the Parish Celebration a huge success. Thank you, with all my heart, to everyone for everything you did. The memory of my Golden Anniversary of Priesthood will remain with me for ever. Please send me, digitally, your photographs. Unless you instruct me otherwise, I would like to publish some of them on our parish website, as a permanent reminder of a quite wonderful moment in the life our parish. Thank you for all your gifts and cards and best wishes. I am deeply honoured to be your priest. Thank you for your generous Collection for me which raised £1,596.00.

Parish Priest Notices

Important notices and items. These will contain news elements & important requests and parish notices

By Webmaster March 15, 2026
7/8: 5pm Mary; 9am Lisa; 11am Carolyn 14/15: 5pm Jim; 9am Gabrielle; 11am Giannina 21/22: 5pm Lesley; 9am Linda; 11am Regina 28/29: 5pm Patrick; 9am Paul; 11am Lizzie Thank you to our wonderful Ministers of the Eucharist who have accepted the Lord’s invitation to this awesome, sacred ministry, by their willingness to give up their own plans and convenience in order to do God’s will rather than their own. Let us pray for them because they too fight the same personal weaknesses we all have to fight against and they too have to fight the same temptations we all have to fight. God be with them.
By WEBMASTER March 15, 2026
Mon: David  Fri: Lorenza
By Webmaster March 15, 2026
7/8: 5pm Jim; 9am Lorenza; 11am Patricia 14/15: 5pm Mutsa; 9am Phil; 11am Marian 21/22: 5pm Mike; 9am Chris; 11am Collette  28/29: 5pm Paul; 9am Gerry; 11am Claire
By Webmaster February 23, 2026
Please note that the Cafe is only licensed to provide hot drinks and cakes. We are not insured for the cooking or provision of hot food. There are regulations around hygiene and food safety which we would have to meet, before we would be able to offer cooked or heated food to Visitors to the Cafe. Also, only someone with the required Health and Safety certification is permitted by Law, to prepare food for public consumption. We can, of course, apply for permission to provide cooked or heated food in our Cafe and as long as we can satisfy all the requirements, we would receive permission to do so. This is what we have done in the past for special occasions. If we were to use the cooking facilities and equipment in our Cafe and provide food, without the required permissions, we could be in difficulty. If an accident occurred in the kitchen or someone became unwell after consuming food, we could well face a very large fine or even the compulsory closure of the Cafe. Please speak with me, well in advance, if you would like to suggest an occasion when we could provide cooked or heated food. We would need to satisfy all requirements and seek the approvals needed, which we could do. Many thanks.
By Webmaster February 22, 2026
Please do your best to bring members of your family, your friends, neighbours and colleagues who normally have little, if any contact with our Catholic parish, to the Olde Forge Cafe. Please remember that those you bring with you DO NOT give a donation for their coffee and cake. Only us, who are regular members of our parish, are asked to give a donation, each time, to cover the cost of the Coffee machine, coffee beans, heat, light etc. Dear Bakers and those who provide milk, please remember to take your expenses from the donations received.
By Webmaster February 9, 2026
Thank you so much to all the wonderful people who act as Hosts in our Olde Forge Cafe. If you are not yet a Host, please speak with me. It would be great to increase the team of Hosts. All training to operate the Coffee Machine, will be given.

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By Webmaster March 16, 2026
Deep in the human heart is a longing to be connected to others, to love and to be loved. I am leading this Workshop from 10.00am until 2.00pm on Saturday 11th July . The Workshop will help us to understand the reasons why we sometimes feel lonely and what a devastating effect Loneliness can have on us. I’ll suggest effective ways to ensure that your experience of Loneliness can actually become the means of finding deep, satisfying ways of being close to the Lord and to other people. The workshop will take place at the London Jesuit Centre. If you would like to attend this Workshop, please book now on the London Jesuit Centre website.
By Webmaster March 16, 2026
Anxiety and Worry often make life difficult for many people. I am leading this Workshop, from the evening of Friday 22nd May ( 6.30pm to 8.30pm) then continuing on Saturday 23rd May (11.00am TO 1.00pm). This Workshop will explain how Anxiety begins, how it can take hold of us and then spoil so much of our lives. I’ll also offer some very good, tried and tested ways in which people can escape from Worry or at the very least reduce it and begin to live much happier lives, feeling and monk . The Workshop will take place at the London Jesuit Centre. If you would like to attend this Workshop, please book now on the London Jesuit Centre website.
By Webmaster March 16, 2026
We will have a short Penance Service, followed by an opportunity for individual reconciliation with the Lord, on Tuesday 31st March at 6.00pm

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