HOLY FAMILY, SANDERSTEAD - A MISSIONARY PARISH OF MISSIONARY DISCIPLES

Webmaster • September 1, 2024

Saint Pope John Paul II said: A Catholic parish “calls for the involvement of the ENTIRE People of God and requires a new fervour, new methods and a new expression for the announcing and witnessing of the Gospel.”


Our own Archbishop John, says that all the parishes of the Archdiocese of Southwark (which includes Holy Family parish, Sanderstead!) and EVERYONE who comes to holy Mass, is called to embrace this impulse of missionary transformation. Nobody in Holy Family parish, Sanderstead or any parish, ought to be a passive, inactive member of a Christian community. Every one of us, whatever our circumstances, is called by the Lord, through our Archbishop and through my poor, unworthy Self as your Parish Priest, to bring other people to know Jesus and his Church. Here in Sanderstead, in Hamsey Green and indeed everywhere we find ourselves, we are all asked by the Lord Jesus to be his missionary disciples and responsible members of Holy Family parish, Sanderstead. The main goal of everyone who comes to our parish, is to connect with those who do not yet follow the Lord Jesus, to love them and to welcome them into the Church. I know that much great work like this is done by people of our parish but outside our parish, in various ways. That is wonderful. Nonetheless, these good people of our parish, are also called by the Lord, to contribute in some way to the work for Evangelisation that is taking place in their own parish.


Many Catholic parishes often appear to have just a few very generous people who do very much in their parishes, while there are others who do very little. We need, by the grace of God in the gift of the Holy Spirit, to try to reverse that trend. Here in Holy Family parish, we certainly have a number of amazingly generous and holy people who do a huge amount of work to build God’s Kingdom in this place and to evangelise; others who do some really good work for God too, in our parish; others though, who I am sad to say, have yet to begin to be actively involved in God’s work. I hope to continue to encourage everyone in our parish, to full, conscious and active participation in our Calling to be Missionary Disciples of Jesus in a Missionary Parish. To do so, I hope to thank and to ask those who are already doing so much, to actually do less and to allow others to better share in the work we do! I hope to thank and encourage those who have begun to share in God’s work in this place, to perhaps do a little more! I will risk being thought badly of, by inviting those who have yet to be actively involved, to please hear the Call of the Lord Jesus and say yes to his loving request. However, please don’t wait for me to speak with you; please do speak with me and tell me how you feel you can better live this wonderful Calling that we all have of being the voice, the hands, the very presence of Jesus in this place. There is such a range of work that we can all do. Let’s talk about it together and find that place and way that is yours. I pray for you every day.


The ‘Olde Forge Cafe’ is not primarily a social venue for parishioners of Holy Family parish. It has ceased to be a Parish Hall where Holy Family parishioners enjoy themselves! It is now, first and foremost, in response to what our Archbishop is asking of us, a place for us to bring our neighbours, family members, colleagues and friends who do not yet know the Lord Jesus and his Church very well. Of course, it is for us too, as we try to fulfil our Calling to be Missionary Disciples, in a Missionary Parish.


“Who have I brought with me?” This must be the question on our lips and in our minds and hearts to indicate the efforts we need to be making, every time we come to holy Mass and every time we come to the ‘Olde Forge Cafe.’

By Webmaster • October 26, 2026
OCTOBER 31: 5pm Mike NOVEMBER 1st 10.30am Chris 7/8: 5pm Phil; 10.30am Gerry 14/15: 5pm Lisa; 10.30am Mutsa 21/22: 5pm Collette; 10.30am Jim 28/29: 5pm David; 10.30am Chinwe
By Webmaster • October 26, 2026
Vision for our Parish and Church - 13 members of the parish attended this meeting last Friday week and initially wondered why so few had attended. The session raised my awareness that the Church is changing and that it is the Holy Spirit who is prompting, nudging, and inviting each one of us to change and better understand who we are as Christians and to contribute to and be involved in the way the Church develops and functions especially here in Sanderstead. We are being invited to copy and do what those first Christians did as described in the Acts of the Apostles who prayed together, worshipped together, looked after those in need together and supported each other and felt able to tell others about Jesus. How do we achieve this or feel motivated to engage in the process? What do we, as a community, need to do or change in order to better respond to this call? There are no quick answers…it raises several challenging issues and questions.  Let’s ponder and discuss the meaning of this invitation for ourselves and others during our time in the parish Café and amongst ourselves at home. (Paul Donovan)
By Webmaster • October 25, 2026
During the month of November, we pray for everyone who has lived in this world and during that brief time, has tried to follow the Lord’s will and plan for them. We call them the ‘Holy Souls.’ Following their deaths, they are now travelling home to Heaven, while undergoing a process of the purification of their Souls. We believe that the holy Mass, celebrated for the deceased person, connects them closely to the Lord and his saving love and speeds their purification and journey to Heaven.  Please find in the porch of the church, envelopes for holy Masses to be celebrated in November, for people you have known or have known about. Please complete the details on the envelope, adding your stipend, and please post the envelopes through the door of the presbytery. One day, please God, following our deaths, there will be people praying for us.
By Webmaster • October 25, 2026
October 31: 5pm David 1st November 10.30am Angela, Margaret, Phil(H) 7/8: 5pm Simone; 10.30am Mary, Lisa, Lesley(H) 14/15: 5pm Jim; 10.30am Paul Donovan, Gaberielle, Giannina(H) 21/22: 5pm Regina; 10.30am Andrea, Paul Mould, Patrick(H) 28/ 29: 5pm Lizzie; 10.30am Lorenza, Patricia, Maggie(H) Thank you to our wonderful Ministers of the Eucharist who have accepted the Lord’s invitation to this awesome, sacred ministry, by their willingness to give up their own plans and convenience in order to do God’s will rather than their own. Let us pray for them because they too fight the same personal weaknesses we all have to fight against and they too have to fight the same temptations we all have to fight. God be with them.
By WEBMASTER • October 25, 2026
Tue: Patricia Wed: Collette Thu: Paul  Fri: Jim
By Webmaster • October 25, 2026
During October, we pray a decade of the prayer of the rosary, at the end of every holy Mass. To carry a string of rosary beads with you and to pray the rosary can be a beautiful way of prayer. Please bring your rosary with you, when you come to holy Mass. If you don’t yet have a rosary, please may I encourage you to get one.
By Webmaster • October 25, 2026
Please note that our Evangelisation Cafe opens on Tuesdays immediately AFTER holy Mass, at about 10.15am so that our Hosts may be able to celebrate holy Mass before opening the Café. The Café will then be open until about 12.00midday. The Café is also open on Sundays immediately AFTER our final Sunday holy Masses until about 1.00pm The Olde Forge Evangelisation Café can only open thanks to the great generosity of our wonderful Hosts and Bakers/Providers.  Thank you so much to them. If you are not yet an active member of our Parish Faith community, please offer your help as a Host or Baker/Provider. Presently it would mean that your help is needed only about once every month. The more Hosts we have the less often your good help is required. We will be very pleased to show you how the Coffee machine works and you will soon be able to be one of our very own ‘Baristas’!
By Webmaster • October 25, 2026
OLDE FORGE CAFE BAKERS/PROVIDERS ROTA OCTOBER 2026 31: Kinga NOVEMBER 2026 7th: Patricia 14th: Giannina 21st: Lizzie 28th: Maria H Please, if possible, could you provide enough cakes for the whole of each week. Thank you to everybody who is helping to provide cakes. To avoid having too many cakes, Coral mentioned to me that non-perishable cakes can be safely stored in the Cafe for a short while. When it is your turn to provide a non-perishable cake, please bring your cake to the Cafe a few days before the date of your turn. OLDE FORGE CAFE - HOSTS ROTA OCTOBER 2026 27: Paul, Marian 31: David, Vanessa NOVEMBER 2026 1st: Giannina, Maggie Bowes 3rd: Gabrielle, Marian 8th: Phil, Maggie Bailey 10th: Jim, Lorenza 15th: Lizzie, Lesley 17th: Paul Mould, Collette 22nd: Patricia, Simone 24th: Regina, Ros 29th: Emmanuela, Vanessa Please note that for each of the above dates when the Cafe is open, one of the two Hosts has been trained in the use of the new coffee machine. Please would that trained person be the only person operating the machine and also please train the other person in its use. Many thanks. Thank you to everybody who acts as a Host. If an unexpected emergency occurs on the date you are scheduled to be a Host, please don’t worry about the Cafe. No need to try to find someone to ‘stand in’ for you. There is no need whatsoever to ‘swop’ with someone! We are not a Business, having to stay open to make money! - we open when and if we can. We take this role of ‘Host’ as a Vocation from the Lord to be his Missionary and his Prophet. Actually, the Cafe has, at times, functioned well with just one Host. The success of our Evangelisation Cafe depends on us. The more we speak to others of our Cafe, inviting them to visit us, the more successful it will be. Please invite members of your families, your friends, your neighbours and colleagues. Please check when it is your turn to be a Host (or a Baker!). Please see this role as a Calling, a Vocation from the Lord which you are generously telling the Lord you will do”. Thank you so much for your trust in the good Lord
By Webmaster • October 25, 2026
On Sunday 7th February 2027, Bishop Gerard will be joining us for our 10.30am holy Mass. During that holy Mass, Bishop Gerard will celebrate the great Sacrament of Confirmation for us. Please would anyone who has not yet received the Sacrament of Confirmation in her or his life, speak with me. This is a great opportunity to receive the gifts of God’s Holy Spirit in this Sacrament. The Holy Spirit comes upon us to give us gifts, like Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Gentleness, Self-Control, Perseverance, Wisdom, Generosity, Humility and Courage and many more. These are the gifts that we all need to live real, adult, mature lives of Faith in this world. We will shortly begin a series of meetings to help those who will be preparing to receive this Sacrament. Please let know in the next few weeks if you would like to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation on Sunday 7th February next year, when Bishop Gerard visits us.
By Webmaster • October 25, 2026
The re-arranged date and time for the first meeting will be Friday 20th November at 5.00pm in the Parish Room.