HOLY FAMILY, SANDERSTEAD - A MISSIONARY PARISH OF MISSIONARY DISCIPLES

Webmaster • September 1, 2024

Saint Pope John Paul II said: A Catholic parish “calls for the involvement of the ENTIRE People of God and requires a new fervour, new methods and a new expression for the announcing and witnessing of the Gospel.”


Our own Archbishop John, says that all the parishes of the Archdiocese of Southwark (which includes Holy Family parish, Sanderstead!) and EVERYONE who comes to holy Mass, is called to embrace this impulse of missionary transformation. Nobody in Holy Family parish, Sanderstead or any parish, ought to be a passive, inactive member of a Christian community. Every one of us, whatever our circumstances, is called by the Lord, through our Archbishop and through my poor, unworthy Self as your Parish Priest, to bring other people to know Jesus and his Church. Here in Sanderstead, in Hamsey Green and indeed everywhere we find ourselves, we are all asked by the Lord Jesus to be his missionary disciples and responsible members of Holy Family parish, Sanderstead. The main goal of everyone who comes to our parish, is to connect with those who do not yet follow the Lord Jesus, to love them and to welcome them into the Church. I know that much great work like this is done by people of our parish but outside our parish, in various ways. That is wonderful. Nonetheless, these good people of our parish, are also called by the Lord, to contribute in some way to the work for Evangelisation that is taking place in their own parish.


Many Catholic parishes often appear to have just a few very generous people who do very much in their parishes, while there are others who do very little. We need, by the grace of God in the gift of the Holy Spirit, to try to reverse that trend. Here in Holy Family parish, we certainly have a number of amazingly generous and holy people who do a huge amount of work to build God’s Kingdom in this place and to evangelise; others who do some really good work for God too, in our parish; others though, who I am sad to say, have yet to begin to be actively involved in God’s work. I hope to continue to encourage everyone in our parish, to full, conscious and active participation in our Calling to be Missionary Disciples of Jesus in a Missionary Parish. To do so, I hope to thank and to ask those who are already doing so much, to actually do less and to allow others to better share in the work we do! I hope to thank and encourage those who have begun to share in God’s work in this place, to perhaps do a little more! I will risk being thought badly of, by inviting those who have yet to be actively involved, to please hear the Call of the Lord Jesus and say yes to his loving request. However, please don’t wait for me to speak with you; please do speak with me and tell me how you feel you can better live this wonderful Calling that we all have of being the voice, the hands, the very presence of Jesus in this place. There is such a range of work that we can all do. Let’s talk about it together and find that place and way that is yours. I pray for you every day.


The ‘Olde Forge Cafe’ is not primarily a social venue for parishioners of Holy Family parish. It has ceased to be a Parish Hall where Holy Family parishioners enjoy themselves! It is now, first and foremost, in response to what our Archbishop is asking of us, a place for us to bring our neighbours, family members, colleagues and friends who do not yet know the Lord Jesus and his Church very well. Of course, it is for us too, as we try to fulfil our Calling to be Missionary Disciples, in a Missionary Parish.


“Who have I brought with me?” This must be the question on our lips and in our minds and hearts to indicate the efforts we need to be making, every time we come to holy Mass and every time we come to the ‘Olde Forge Cafe.’

By Webmaster July 26, 2026
July  25/26 5pm Simone; 9am Maggie; 11am Mary, Lisa, Jim(H) August 1/2: 5pm Paul Mould; 9.00am Jim;11.00am Paul Donovan, Giannina, Gaberielle(H) 8/9: 5pm Patricia; 9.00am Lesley;11.00am Regina, Patrick, Lizzie(H) 15/16 : 5pm Lorenza; 9.00am Simone; 11.00am Ross, David, Maggie(H) 22/23 : 5pm Marian; 9.00am Phil; 11.00am Angela, Phil, Margaret(H) 29/30: 5pm Simone; 9.00am Lesley;11.00am Mary, Jim, Thank you to our wonderful Ministers of the Eucharist who have accepted the Lord’s invitation to this awesome, sacred ministry, by their willingness to give up their own plans and convenience in order to do God’s will rather than their own. Let us pray for them because they too fight the same personal weaknesses we all have to fight against and they too have to fight the same temptations we all have to fight. God be with them.
By WEBMASTER July 26, 2026
Tue: Lizzie Wed: Paul  Fri: Collette
By Webmaster July 26, 2026
OLDE FORGE CAFE BAKERS/PROVIDERS ROTA JULY 2026 4: Lizzie 11: Maggie Bowes 18: Giannina 25: Chinwe AUGUST 2026 1: Caroline 8: Kim 15: Vanessa 22: Chinwe 29: Soph Please, if possible, could you provide enough cakes for the whole of each week. Thank you to everybody who is helping to provide cakes. To avoid having too many cakes, Coral mentioned to me that non-perishable cakes can be safely stored in the Cafe for a short while. When it is your turn to provide a non-perishable cake, please bring your cake to the Cafe a few days before the date of your turn. OLDE FORGE CAFE - HOSTS ROTA JULY 2026 4: Ross, David 5: Jim, Patricia 7: Jenny, Collette 11: Phil, Mary 12: Regina, Patrick 14: Lorenza, Marian 18: Maggie, Simone 19: Emmanuala, Giannina 21: Gaberielle, Paul 25: Jenny, Lizzie 26: Lorenza, David 28: Marian, Ross AUGUST 2026 1: Maggie Bowes, Giannina 2: Lizzie, Paul Mould 4: Collette, Gaberielle 8: Patricia, Mary 9: Maggie Bailey, Jim 11: Ross, Regina 15: Simone, Marian 16: Emmanuala, Lorenza 18: David, Maggie Bowes 22: Phil, Patrick 23: Giannina, Lizzie 25: Paul Mould, Collette 29: Jim, Gaberielle 30: Patricia, Maggie Bailey Please note that for each of the above dates when the Cafe is open, one of the two Hosts has been trained in the use of the new coffee machine. Please would that trained person be the only person operating the machine and also please train the other person in its use. Many thanks. Thank you to everybody who acts as a Host. If an unexpected emergency occurs on the date you are scheduled to be a Host, please don’t worry about the Cafe. No need to try to find someone to ‘stand in’ for you. There is no need whatsoever to ‘swop’ with someone! We are not a Business, having to stay open to make money! - we open when and if we can. We take this role of ‘Host’ as a Vocation from the Lord to be his Missionary and his Prophet. Actually, the Cafe has, at times, functioned well with just one Host. The success of our Evangelisation Cafe depends on us. The more we speak to others of our Cafe, inviting them to visit us, the more successful it will be. Please invite members of your families, your friends, your neighbours and colleagues. Please check when it is your turn to be a Host (or a Baker!). Please see this role as a Calling, a Vocation from the Lord which you are generously telling the Lord you will do”. Thank you so much for your trust in the good Lord
By Webmaster July 26, 2026
On Sunday 7th February 2027, Bishop Gerard will be joining us for our 10.30am holy Mass. During that holy Mass, Bishop Gerard will celebrate the great Sacrament of Confirmation for us. Please would anyone who has not yet received the Sacrament of Confirmation in her or his life, speak with me. This is a great opportunity to receive the gifts of God’s Holy Spirit in this Sacrament. The Holy Spirit comes upon us to give us gifts, like Love, Joy, Peace, Patience, Kindness, Gentleness, Self-Control, Perseverance, Wisdom, Generosity, Humility and Courage and many more. These are the gifts that we all need to live real, adult, mature lives of Faith in this world. We will shortly begin a series of meetings to help those who will be preparing to receive this Sacrament. Please let know in the next few weeks if you would like to receive the Sacrament of Confirmation on Sunday 7th February next year, when Bishop Gerard visits us.
By Webmaster July 26, 2026
AUGUST 1/2: 5pm Lisa; 9.00am Mike;11.00am Mutsa 8/9: 5pm Chris; 9.00am Gerry; 11.00 Lorenza 15/16: 5pm Collette; 9.00am Chris; 11.00am Jim 22/23: 5pm Mike; 9.00am Lizzie; 11.00am Paul Donovan 29/30: Maggie; 9.00am David
By Webmaster July 26, 2026
I would like to make you aware of a new type of scam that is now targeting individuals within our parish communities through WhatsApp. Cyber criminals are increasingly using artificial intelligence (AI) to create convincing videos, voice messages and written communications while impersonating members of the clergy. Their aim is to deceive unsuspecting individuals into believing they are communicating with a priest, bishop, or other Parish representative before requesting money or donations. • Never assume that a WhatsApp message or video is genuine simply because it appears to come from a member of the clergy. • Never send money, gift cards or bank details in response to unsolicited requests received via WhatsApp or other messaging platforms. • Always verify the identity of the sender by contacting the priest or parish directly using a known telephone number or official email address before responding to any request. • Report any suspicious messages and the phone numbers to Action Fraud https://www.reportfraud.police.uk/.
By Webmaster July 26, 2026
Please renew or sign up for Gift Aid. Thank you to everyone who has already done so. Please use the QR you will find on this Newsletter. Any difficulties, please let me know. Gift Aid enables us to claim an extra 2 5p for every £1 you give, at no additional cost to you. Thank you for your generosity in support of your parish. 
By Webmaster July 26, 2026
Following the notice in the Newsletter asking you to let me know what time yu think is best for us to celebrate holy Mass on Tuesdays, there does not seem to be a reason why we should have holy Mass in the early Evening. So, we will return to having holy Mass on Tuesdays, in the Mornings, at the usual time of 9.30am preceded 9.00am by Morning Prayer and Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament.
By Webmaster July 26, 2026
We now know that there is no obligation on any parish within the Archdiocese of Southwark to lose a Sunday holy Mass. The Archbishop and his Advisors are simply suggesting that some parishes may wish to reduce their number of Sunday holy Masses during the Summer months. Some of our local parishes are taking this option. My feeling though is that since there is now no obligation upon us to reduce our Sunday holy Mass schedule, we simply continue with our normal three Sunday holy Masses - i.e our Sunday Vigil holy Mass on Saturdays at 5.00pm and then two holy Masses on Sundays at 9.00am and 11.00am. I know this will please some of the members of our parish. I will continue to do my best to celebrate three Sunday holy Masses for you, for as long as I can. So, our Sunday holy Mass times will be as normal next weekend and going forward into the future.  May I ask everyone, in return, to please offer to become a Host in our Olde Forge Evangelisation Cafe which would be a great help. In fact, it would be very helpful indeed if someone offered to help us to manage the Cafe, to handle the day to day practical arrangements. Please let me know if you would do this.
By Webmaster July 20, 2026
Benedict for helping to update our parish website Marian for her kindness  All our Hosts and all the Bakers/Providers for our Olde Forge Evangelisation Café